I know and believe that everyone in the world is conditioned from his or her birth.All your feelings about your religion and your attitude towards others is greatly effected by the conditions you went through.No human is a Hindu,Muslim or Christian by birth.He was brought up, following and believing some practices that were imposed by a certain religion.Imagine what you would be doing if there you are brought up in a forest, no school,study but danger from animals.You will adapt yourself to that life.Just as early man did.Slowly,as the society was built up,they started following some social rules.At first they were simple and unwritten as the groups were small in the form of villages.But as time passed, there were written rules and punishment for violating each rule.Since, world is vast, different countries developed different cultures.Different countries have different punishments for same crime.One country may regard some thing as a crime, while some other may not....!!!
I think, marriage is one of the social custom invented and developed by humans to differentiate humans from dogs and other animals.Irrespective of region and religion, they give certain degree of importance to marriage. It is one of the important things that is guiding the social structure of the world.Like many things in this world, Marriage has its pros and cons.
1)Social effects of marriage:
Advantages:
Firstly, Marriage creates a sense of responsibility in taking care of offspring.This provides a strong support to the future generations of the country.The more emphasis a culture and country lays on marriage, the stronger are the future generations as they gain adequate knowledge from their parents and guidance.
Secondly,It provides a sense of security and comfort for the couple.It also joins 2 large groups or families by building new relations between them.I see marriage as Second birth in this world because, we double the number of relations we already have.The persons who are unknown or nothing to you become your relations overnight.......!!!
Thirdly, a good relationship based on mutual trust between the couple eliminates the sense of lonely feeling. They face the problems together.
Disadvantages:
It narrows down the vision of a human.Makes him more selfish.Makes him forget that every individual needs to have certain facilities.They concentrate on ultra high facilities for their own children but doesn't care about destroying the carrier of some other child directly or indirectly.They try to accommodate a lot of wealth for their children and sometimes doesn't care if their methods of earning are fraudulent.
It suppresses the potential of the couple.It can be any gender.As the Males form larger section of the working class, I think, the family tensions,steep raise in economic requirements and the indirect nature of women (his wife) will show its effect on his work potential and satisfaction.The women (though form a smaller but rapidly developing workforce) face the responsibility of bringing up the children.Many well educated and talented women stopped working to take care of children.And as there is no other person who could take care of child better than the mother, I feel that this is a necessary evil.
When misused, It can lead to gender domination and source of variety of crimes.
Religious Believes:
Though each religion give due respect to marriage, there are some unspoken rules(conditioning or religious believes) about the gender responsibilities.Currently, these rules are being misused to suppress the women's rights.
These different levels of importance given to marriage in different castes will lead to difference in justice.The same case with Hindu won't yield the same judgement as the case of Muslim.There is no common law for all individuals.
My Belief about Marriage:
To say in a polite way, Marriage is a licence to have children as well as the responsibility to trust and respect your partner and provide guidance to the young ones.
I think, sexual attraction is commonly known animal trait.It creates a sense of false pleasure and also helps in continual of race of any species.The humans tried to make it look good and different from other animals.
I think, marriage is one of the social custom invented and developed by humans to differentiate humans from dogs and other animals.Irrespective of region and religion, they give certain degree of importance to marriage. It is one of the important things that is guiding the social structure of the world.Like many things in this world, Marriage has its pros and cons.
1)Social effects of marriage:
Advantages:
Firstly, Marriage creates a sense of responsibility in taking care of offspring.This provides a strong support to the future generations of the country.The more emphasis a culture and country lays on marriage, the stronger are the future generations as they gain adequate knowledge from their parents and guidance.
Secondly,It provides a sense of security and comfort for the couple.It also joins 2 large groups or families by building new relations between them.I see marriage as Second birth in this world because, we double the number of relations we already have.The persons who are unknown or nothing to you become your relations overnight.......!!!
Thirdly, a good relationship based on mutual trust between the couple eliminates the sense of lonely feeling. They face the problems together.
Disadvantages:
It narrows down the vision of a human.Makes him more selfish.Makes him forget that every individual needs to have certain facilities.They concentrate on ultra high facilities for their own children but doesn't care about destroying the carrier of some other child directly or indirectly.They try to accommodate a lot of wealth for their children and sometimes doesn't care if their methods of earning are fraudulent.
It suppresses the potential of the couple.It can be any gender.As the Males form larger section of the working class, I think, the family tensions,steep raise in economic requirements and the indirect nature of women (his wife) will show its effect on his work potential and satisfaction.The women (though form a smaller but rapidly developing workforce) face the responsibility of bringing up the children.Many well educated and talented women stopped working to take care of children.And as there is no other person who could take care of child better than the mother, I feel that this is a necessary evil.
When misused, It can lead to gender domination and source of variety of crimes.
Religious Believes:
Though each religion give due respect to marriage, there are some unspoken rules(conditioning or religious believes) about the gender responsibilities.Currently, these rules are being misused to suppress the women's rights.
These different levels of importance given to marriage in different castes will lead to difference in justice.The same case with Hindu won't yield the same judgement as the case of Muslim.There is no common law for all individuals.
My Belief about Marriage:
To say in a polite way, Marriage is a licence to have children as well as the responsibility to trust and respect your partner and provide guidance to the young ones.
I think, sexual attraction is commonly known animal trait.It creates a sense of false pleasure and also helps in continual of race of any species.The humans tried to make it look good and different from other animals.
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